Thursday, October 25, 2007

Unfaithfull Men!

Unfaithful men seem to be everywhere nowadays. Your chances of becoming involved with an unfaithful man in this day and age are great. Yet, the age-old question of why men are unfaithful is difficult to answer.

Most husbands probably have the urge to cheat at one time or another. Those that choose not to respect their partner and their relationship too much to risk it. Many experts feel that an unfaithful man cheats because he is in an unhealthy relationship that already had existing problems. It would be interesting to know how many men who are in happy relationships are unfaithful.
However, what are the reasons as to why men are unfaithful? Sometimes it can be a simple reason, other times a complex combination of reasons. Is an unfaithful man really controlled by his “privates” and not his mind?

Various statistics claim that the more attractive a person is, the more likely they will be unfaithful because their opportunities to cheat increase. However, just because you marry an ugly guy doesn’t mean he won’t be unfaithful.
Reasons why men are unfaithful in a happy relationship may be because they are selfish or to pump their ego. Cheating is an extremely selfish act and men who cheat rarely think about their partner’s feelings when committing the act. Since a cheating man lacks respect for his lady, he is obviously much more likely to make moves on beautiful ladies only.
Are men’s genes really that out of control that they can’t remain faithful? Expert’s views are divided. Some experts state unfaithful men cheat because they are lonely or simply as an escape. Since men are taught not to show or communicate their feelings, stopping the cheating behavior becomes even more difficult. Sometimes having "special relation" is the only way a cheating man can even achieve an emotional bond. Because of this, it isn’t surprising that when men cheat, many times their emotional needs are not met at all. Those cheating men that suffer from the guilt associated from the affair, may experience a mix of emotions ranging from lashing out in anger, depression or being overly nice. It’s a vicious cycle and one that is hard to break.
A cheating man is more likely to stay in a relationship if there is a long relationship history of time, there are intertwined monies or if there are children.

Friday, October 5, 2007

Encounter!!!!

1- Do you wake up with enough time margin in Sehri or just rush to the dinning room five minutes before Azan time?

rush to the dinning room 2 mins before Azan time :P

2- A must have food item in Sehri / Iftar?

Rice

3- A food item you try to avoid in Sehri/ Iftar?

chapati

4- Have you observed fast without Sehri this ramz

NO ...not yet

5- Which thing you crave for after Iftar? Milk, Tea, Coffee, Cigarette … etc?

Cigarette ;)

6- Invited for Iftar this ramzan? How many times and by whom?

4 times by relatives.

7- Invited for Sehri and/or invited somebody for the same at your place?

NO...never had such a weird thought :P

8- Dinned out at Sehri? If yes, how was the experience?

NO...never did that too

9- Would you like to recommend a place for Iftar?

yeah.......PC..where sidra and isbah had been yesterday.

10- Routine changes in Ramzan, so do the college and office timings. With half of the ramzan gone, have you adjusted yourself with this new routine or still struggling? Or your routine varies from weekdays to weekends in a different way than it used to be before Ramzan; and are you quite satisfied with the goings?

ooo i am hell satisfied with the timings and i am very happy...i wish these timings could continue after ramzan as well :P

11- Are there any non-Muslims in the circle of your colleagues, class-fellows and friends? And do they avoid eating openly?

no there is no nonmuslim..but yeah there r some muslims....(i salute them.) and they dont give a crap while eating :P :P :P

12- Do you think you are doing justice with your Ebadaat this month, in a true sagacity as it should be in ramzan?

NO :( i am no good :(

13- Do you go shopping on chand raat? If ‘yes’ then with family, friends or alone?

No i dont..

14- Are we going to celebrate this Eid with Musharraf as president? And next Eids with both: Mush and BB as ‘P’ and ‘PM’ respectively?

nahiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.....ye nahi ho sakta...keh do k ye nahi ho sakta...main jaan de doon gi :(