Love is possible?

"All men and all women are connected by an energy which many people call love, but which is, in fact, the raw material from which the universe was built. This energy can't be manipulated, it leads us gently forwards, it contains all we have to learn in this life. If we try to make it go in the direction we want, we end up desperate, frustrated, disillusioned, because that energy is free and wild. We could spend the rest of our life saying that we love such a person or thing, when the truth is that we are merely suffering because, instead of accepting love's strength, we are trying to diminish it so that it fits the world in which we imagine we live "

~ The Zahir by Paulo Coelho

RAIN..

Don't know why,In Life it happens that the person who gives you immense happiness,is sometimes the one who hurts you to an extent that you feel pity for your own self.

I love rain,love to watch the drops of rain coming to earth...but right now..the rain which i can see through my window,i am not loving it. Unlike always, the rain drops do not appear to me as bright shining dew drops anymore.

Ever tried to analyze the mechanism of rain?
These drops fall from sky to the earth taking their individuality along with them and as soon as they reach earth they lose it....to be known as water...
And we....HUMAN BEINGS....we come to earth as HUMANS..no name,no individuality, in this world we acquire our individuality through our deeds,our actions, struggle for it,and finally went up the sky...and lose it.......

We!Mortal beings..why cant we love each other?have u ever seen drops of rain fighting and hurting each other?

Man!in no way can be better than these rain drops,who lose their individuality and become ONE.Who fall to be one.Why cant we be one?
Tears are way far better than ME..at least they can get compared with the rain drops :)

~The Memoona

I Dont' Have Time !

"Avoiding the phrase “I don’t have time…”, will soon help you to realize that you do have the time needed for just about anything you choose to accomplish in life."

"Find Yourself In You"

She never thought that she would
Get her second chance
Running so far from all she's ever known
Convinced she's lost all meaning
Where did her dreams go
Still she knew that there was something more

Don't be scared, there's someone there
To say these words you need to hear


Don't let anybody tell you who you are (who you are)
It's OK to let go, you're that shooting star (shooting star)
Remember all you wished for
Believe it will be true
You will never find yourself anywhere else,
You'll find yourself in you

Sometimes people tell you
Be like me to fit in
Do you know your identity is not in them

Don't be scared there's someone there
To say these words you need to hear



Why should I measure the world
By someone else's design
Oh I won't let this fly by
Hey look over here I just found the real me
Now it's your turn to see
Now it's your turn to see


You'll find yourself in you
You'll find yourself in you

A Darker Shade of Words

Raised voices, angered expressions and bitter complaints. There were too many words spoken to make any sense. I, who always agreed, disagreed. He, who always understood, misunderstood.

It was a rotten phone call.

In utter confusion and helplessness of unexplained gestures; I asked him, “don’t you trust me?” And that’s when silence struck like a thunderbolt; the line dropped and all I could hear was a melancholic tone ___ just like the one you hear in an ICU when someone dies. Something died between us.

It was a forgotten phone call.

I sailed through empty days in sheer absence of time. Days started wearing months. That melancholy was still there each time I picked up the phone to dial his number. That constant tone and saddening fear stopped my fingers from pressing the buttons.

Then one day, the phone rang, he called me up after all those years and said,

“I don’t know.”
~ Amir Saleem

GoodBye.....................

"I thought about you today, And for the first time it wasn't about the past, or the lies, it wasn't about the hurt, or the tears, It wasn't about my broken heart or what I used to wish the future would be. It was about the end to all that, and the beginning of a friendship. So I don't know why people say love never ends in friendship because mine for you has .. Can't say how I feel, Can't tell if my heart would heal, but I always knew from the start I never really had your heart. So leave me, now before I cry. The pain's too much to say GOODBYE. but Always remember each tear I shed is something left unsaid."
~Source UnKnown

Woman....

A woman has strengths that amaze me.She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.She holds happiness,love and opinions.She smiles when she feels like screaming. She sings when she feels like crying,cries when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid.
Her love is UNCONDITIONAL!
there is only one thing wrong with her, she sometimes forgets what she is WORTH.......

Temptations

A stranger sought out the Father Superior at the monastery of Sceta. “I want to make my life better,” he said. “But I cannot keep myself from having sinful thoughts.” The father noticed that the wind was blowing briskly outside, and said to the stranger: “It's quite hot in here. I wonder if you could seize a bit of that wind outside and bring it here to cool the room.” “That's impossible,” the stranger said. “It is also impossible to keep yourself from thinking of things that offend God,” answered the monk. “But, if you know how to say no to temptation, they will cause you no harm.”

~Maktub

Life is beautiful...plied..you give it a try.. :)

Think of the lizard. It spends most of its life on the ground, envying the birds and indignant at its fate and its shape. “I am the most disliked of all the creatures,” it thinks. “Ugly, repulsive, and condemned to crawl along the ground.” One day, though, Mother Nature asks the lizard to make a cocoon. The lizard is startled -it has never made a cocoon before. He thinks that he is building his tomb, and prepares to die. Although unhappy with the life he has led up until then, he complains to God: “Just when I finally became accustomed to things, Lord, you take away what little I have.” In desperation, he locks himself into the cocoon and awaits the end.
Some days later, he finds that he has been transformed into a beautiful butterfly. He is able to fly to the sky, and he is greatly admired. He is surprised at the meaning of life and at God's designs.

~ Maktub by Paulo Coelho

Repentance

On a moonless night a man entered into his neighbour's garden and stole the largest melon he could find and brought it home.He opened it and found it still unripe.
Then behold a marvel!
The man's conscience woke and smote him with remorse; and he
repented having stolen the melon.
~"The Forerunner" By Khalil Gibran

LoVe!

They say the jackal and the mole
Drink from the selfsame stream
Where the lion comes to drink.
And they say the eagle and the vulture
Dig their beaks into the same carcass,
And are at peace, one with the other,
In the presence of the dead thing.
O love, whose lordly hand
Has bridled my desires,
And raised my hunger and my thirst
To dignity and pride,
Let not the strong in me and the constant
Eat the bread or drink the wine
That tempt my weaker self.
Let me rather starve,

And let my hearrt parch with thirst,
And let me die and perish,
Ere I stretch my hand
To a cup you did not fill,
Or a bowl you did not bless.
~"The Forerunner" By Khalil Gibran

Salary Theorem!

FAREWELL LETTER FROM A GENIUS

Gabriel Garcia Marquez is a famous writer from Columbia. He is a Nobel Peace prize winner for literature and is undoubtedly a genius.He has sent a farewell letter to all his friends and it has been circulated around the Internet.

HE SAYS:
If God, for a second, forgot what I have become and granted me a little bit more of life, I would use it to the best of my ability. I wouldn't possibly say everything that is in my mind, but I would be more thoughtful of all I
say.
I would give merit to things not for what they are worth, but for what they mean to express. I would sleep little, I would dream more, because I know that for every minute that we close our eyes, we waste 60 seconds of light. I would walk while others stop; I would awake while others sleep.
If God would give me a little bit more of life, I would dress in a simple manner. I would place myself in front of the sun, leaving not only my body, but my soul naked at its mercy. To all men I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love.
I would give wings to children, but I would leave it to them to learn how to fly by themselves. To old people I would say that death doesn't arrive when they grow old, but with forgetfulness.

I have learned so much with you all, I have learned that everybody wants to live on top of the mountain, without knowing that true happiness is obtained in the journey taken and the form used to reach the top of the hill. I have learned that when a newborn baby holds, with its little hand, his father's finger, it has trapped him for the rest of his life. I have learned that a man has the right and obligation to look down at another man, only when that man needs help to get up from the ground.

Say always what you feel, not what you think. If I knew that today is the last time that I am going to see you asleep, I would hug you with all my strength and I would pray to the Lord to let me be the guardian angel of your soul. If I knew that these are the last moments to see you, I would say 'I love you'. There is always tomorrow, and life gives us another opportunity to do things right; but in case I am wrong, and today is all that is left to me, I would love to tell you how much I love you and that I will never forget you.

Tomorrow is never guaranteed to anyone, young or old. Today could be the last time to see your loved ones, which is why you mustn't wait; do it today, in case tomorrow never arrives. I am sure you will be sorry you wasted the opportunity today to give a smile, a hug, a kiss, and that you were too busy to grant them their last wish.

Keep your loved ones near you; tell them in their ears and to their faces how much you need them and love them. Love them and treat them well; take your time to tell them 'I am sorry'; 'forgive me', 'please', 'thank you', and all those loving words you know.
Nobody will know you for your secret thought. Ask the Lord for wisdom and strength to express them. Show your friends and loved ones how important they are to you.

If you don't do it today...tomorrow will be like yesterday; and if you never do it, it doesn't matter, either, the moment to do it is now.

For you, with much love,

Your Friend
Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Â

NAFS..

The value of your "NAFS" is heaven...Dont sell it at price less than heaven..

May I Hold Your Hand?

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, 'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.' The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.' 'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father. 'There's a big difference,' replied the little girl.
'If I hold your hand and something happens to me, Chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, You will never let my hand go.'

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its
bond.

Pain-----Pains.

Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers, you just breath deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed but sometimes the pain gets you where you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can't outrun it and life always makes more.

~ Grey's Anatomy

'Oh, my Soul!

"One dark day, as I looked behind the heavy skies, I saw a gentle light pouring from the eyes of a man who was walking forlornly on the path of life; I closed my eyes to that light and said to myself, 'Oh, my soul, darkness of the grave is thy lot, do not be greedy for the light.' Then I heard a beautiful melody from heaven that revived my wounded heart with its purity, but I closed my ears and said, 'Oh, my soul, the cry of the abyss is thy lot, do not be greedy for heavenly songs.' I closed my eyes again so I could not see, and shut my ears so I could not hear, but my closed eyes still saw that gentle light, and my ears still heard that divine sound. I was frightened for the first time and felt like the beggar who found a precious jewel near the Emir's palace and could not pick it up on account of fear, or leave it because of poverty. I cried - a cry of a thirsty soul who sees a brook surrounded by wild beasts, and falls upon the ground waiting and watching fearfully."

Destiny.

"Destiny comes suddenly, bringing concern; she stares at you with horrible eyes and clutches you at the throat with sharp fingers and hurls you to the ground and tramples upon you with ironclad feet; then she laughs and walks away, but later regrets her actions and asks you through good fortune to forgive her. She stretches her silky hand and lifts you high and sings to you the Song of Hope and causes you to lose your cares. She creates in you a new zest for confidence and ambition. If your lot in life is a beautiful bird that you love dearly, you gladly feed to him the seeds of your inner self, and make your heart his cage and your soul his nest. But while you are affectionately admiring him and looking upon him with the eyes of love, he escapes from your hands and flies very high; then he descends and enters into another cage and never comes back to you.

What can you do?
Where can you find patience and condolence?
How can you revive your hopes and dreams?
What power can still your turbulent heart?"

~Spirits Rebellious By Khalil Gibran

MAAZKOOLIAN!!!

Folks....get it...Maazkoolian..i have heard this word for the first time in my life....sounds kool...and ofcourse funny...what does this word exactly mean :P its obvious from the very name of the word...maazkoolian.....something related to jokes....lil jokes...but they make u laugh ur head off...seriously... i asked one of my friends about the explanation of the word....at once he said..."Chotay Chotay Mazay",he gave me some examples of maazkoolian....like if u recieve some kool+stupid+idiotic+funny sms...it comes under the umberella of a maazkooli...or on ur way back home...or somewhere u see a child doing something really funny...like ringing the door bell of neighbours and running away,two kids fighting with eachother,a cute kid eating chocolate(*smooch*)...or..or...or according to him when ur car stops at signal and all of a sudden u catch sight of a smart,cute girl in the car next to u.....WWOOOOOOoOOoOooFFF....this is the biggest MAAZKOOLI i must say...buhahaha.... sometimes u narrate somebdies story as a maazkooli....just to cringe others and urself with delight! Maazkooli activates the chemistry of the will to live and increases our capacity to fight disease.And the good feeling that we get when we laugh can remain with us as an internal experience even after the laughter subsides..... if these CHOTI CHOTI MAAZKOOlizz can make us happy then...i wonder...y everybdy is so sad....may be because people value their pains more than the things that make them happy....

Should we trust our ENEMY more than our SO CALLED FRIEND!!

"I've always said that in COMPETITION, your enemies can't hurt you, but your friends(SO CALLED) will kill you."

~Ann Richards

What are SO CALLED friends?
They are people that you think are your friends But they're really your enemies, with secret indentities and disguises, to hide they're true colors So just when you think you're close enough to be Sisters they wanna come back and cut your throat when you ain't lookin.

When all is said and done, friendship is the only trustworthy fabric of the affections. So-called love is a delirious inhuman state of mind: when hot it substitutes indulgence for fair play; when cold it is cruel, but friendship is warmth in cold, firm ground in a bog.Friends.....a very soothing word indeed,but adding an adjective to it, makes it the most bitchy word around... and that adjective is SO CALLED.....making it something like SO CALLED FRIENDS...they r ppl who try to heal ur wounds by craving them....they r those who pretend that they r ur best wellsishers,ur best friends,ur sympathizer,comforter but in actuall they r the crappiest thing around....they will screw u like anything and still pretend to be ur best budies.....by doing so they think they r KOOL DUDES!!!!

DUHHH!!!!

They actually are losers. By these deeds they want to cater with some complex inside them....they want to adjust things by screwing others.....they make fun of others and think they have achieved something. Confidence in an unfaithful Friend in time of trouble is like a broken tooth, and a foot out of joint. What we learn only through the ears makes less impression upon our minds than what is presented to the trustworthy eye.Remember! A true friend never breaches the trust of his companion or stabs in his back. He is trustworthy and reliable.

One should therefore always try to be a true and reliable friend.The past few days have been something of reflective to me. I just wonder, why am I still alive? Its perhaps God's grace...m still alive *Shrugs* . During this time i have added a new lesson to my life: Never give yourself to anyone. Never trust anyone more that you should. Why?
Well, just to put in lightly, people only notice you when you have something to give. But when they're done with you, they would leave you behind. Like a broken toy. And when that happens, you're left alone. No one is there for you. Only you. Yourself. I won't go into details, but let me just say that a few good people had to suffer for one man's treachery. If I cannot trust anyone anymore, who am I left to trust?

No one. Perhaps only God and I and my BEST FRIENDS.

But other than that.

No one!

The Holy Sinner.......

The telling and keeping of secrets is a time honored social tradition. As far back as we have the written word, we find instances of people telling, keeping, and betraying secrets. The telling and keeping of secrets is one of the basic human traits, in fact the recognition that you have portions of your life that you want to keep private and secret from others, (including parents), is one of the milestones in the psychological development of children. From our youth until the day we die, we share secrets with others and are told secrets by others. These secrets range from casual, gossipy secrets to heart-rending life altering secrets. Unfortunately, the rules/guidelines governing the telling and keeping of secrets are unwritten, uncertain, and to some degree contradictory. We have all be told that we should "keep a secret" and "be trustworthy". However, we are rarely (if ever) given meaningful guidelines on what exactly it means to "keep a secret" or "be trustworthy"...much less any guidelines, suggestions, or training on how to accomplish these two goals. On the surface, "keeping a secret", seems to be fairly straight forward. Someone tells you a secret. You keep it. End of story. However, in real life things are often not that clear cut. Everyone has experiences, memories, and feelings they want to keep private or share only with select people. This need to control parts of our personal lives is universal. Equally strong is our need to share experiences, memories, and feelings with other people. These two needs set the stage for the inevitable situation where we have information that we do not want to share with everyone, but that we do want to share with only with a select few. Why do we need to keep secrets? --Not everyone would understand and the information would cause more problems than keeping the secret could cause. --Simply wanting to control facts and information about your life. All of us know this dat if somebdy had told us his/her secrets and asked us not to disclose dat...still we do....still we tell others...and if dat some has forbidden us from telling a particular person,most of us will go and tell dat only person first.....and then justify their deed by saying that they had good intensions.....lolzz....HUMAN BEINGS ARE IMPOSSIBLE :)

Foosteps in the SAND!

One night a man had a dream.

He dreamed he was walking along
the beach with the Lord.

Across the dark sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene, he noticed
two sets of footprints in the sand,
one beloning to him and the other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He noticed that many times along the path of his life
there was only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened at the
very lowest and saddest times in his life.
This bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it.

"Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you,
you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life there is
only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when I needed you most
you would leave me."

The Lord replied "My precious, precious child,
I love you and would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffereing,
when you see only one set of footprints in the sand,
it was then that I carried you."

Love or Love EGO????

Once there was an island where all the feelings lived together.One day there was a storm in the sea and island was abt to drown.Every feeling was scared but luv made a boat to escape.Every feeling borrowed the boat.One feeling was left. Love got down to c who it was.It was EGO.Love tried n tried but ego dint move.Every one asked Love to leave him and come in the boat.But love was meant to LOVE....it remained with ego.All the other feelings left alive but Love Died coz of EGO...........!